How to Decide Whether to Keep Your Marriage or Other Relationship Going or to End It
By Terry Mansfield 16 Comments
In the top-selling book "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"
Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto Collins offer expert advice
to help you decide how to know WHEN or IF it's time to break up,
leave your relationship or get a divorce.
Theirs is an "action book" provided in traditional print form or
in a downloadable e-book version that is "filled with hundreds of
questions, stories and insights that will help you consciously
determine whether to stay in your present relationship or to move
on."
Relationship Experts Susie and Otto assert that their book "will
take you through a powerful process of discovery about yourself,
your partner and your relationship" and that "by going through
this process, the decision about what's best for you actually
reveals itself to you."
Webster's Dictionary defines a relationship as "a romantic or
passionate attachment." If you're in one, you might think that
you've found heaven on earth. Or maybe something that's not quite
so grand, just OK or so-so. Or possibly something far worse if
your relationship is starting to seem more like hell on earth
than heaven. In fact, things may seem so bad to you that you've
started thinking seriously about leaving a relationship. And if
you're married this could mean getting a divorce. Many of us have
found ourselves in a similar situation and have suffered great
anguish while trying to decide what to do -- stay in a
relationship or leave it.
Well, the husband and wife Relationship Coach team of Susie and
Otto Collins, who are also top-selling authors, are urging that
before you take the next, maybe fateful step regarding your
relationship, that you stop long enough to learn how to make the
best possible decision about whether to stay or go. Susie and
Otto say that while they have a great relationship with one
another now, that wasn't always the case. But they want you to
basically 'go to school on them' by learning from and benefiting
from the relationship journey they made together. While there
most certainly have been others who have overcome the low points
in a relationship and made what eventually became a successful
journey together, not many of them have been able to recount it
in writing in such clear and compelling fashion as have Susie
and Otto Collins in their top-selling book "Should You Stay or
Should You Go?" They claim their book will:
-- Help you know whether you really want to stay in this
relationship or move on
-- Help you discover what you really want in a relationship and
whether you'll be able to have it in this relationship
-- Help you identify the real issues going on in this relationship
(they may not be what you think)
-- Help you understand the communication challenges going on
between the two of you
-- Show you how the way money is handled in your relationship may
be causing major problems without you even knowing it
-- Tell you what to do if there's physical, emotional or sexual
abuse going on in this relationship
-- Give you a new way of thinking about how addictions affect
your relationship
-- Help you identify how patterns from your past may be
unconsciously ruining your relationship right before your eyes